Danielle introducing the course from a couch

Video Course

A Couple's Guide to Opening Up

If you're curious about opening up, this is your starting point. Think of it as sitting down with a non-judgmental peer who has been in the thick of it and done the research.

$50 one-time

8 videos ~1.5 hours Worksheets included

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What You'll Get

8 videos (intro + 6 core lessons + extra tips), about 1.5 hours total
Step-by-step frameworks for the first talk, timing, and Phase 1
Communication tools that build trust, not resentment
Jealousy toolkit you can use the same day
Boundaries vs. rules made practical, with prompts to decide your own
Downloadable worksheets to map your Have / Need / Want and your phases

Overview of all course modules and lessons

What We Cover

01

Initial Conversation

Name your why before the what. How to bring it up without ultimatums.

02

Timing

Go at the speed of the slowest person. How to pace change.

03

Next Steps & Phases

Build a clear Phase 1 and park future ideas for later.

04

Communication

Have / Need / Want, spotlight, parroting, pause, and when to ask for help.

05

Boundaries & Rules

Who, what, where, when, and why. Safety and finances, too.

06

Managing Emotions

What to do with jealousy, fear, and compersion, in real life.

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Extras

Hard-won lessons and recommendations from 16+ years of being open.

Who This Is For

Couples new to non-monogamy or just curious
Partners who want language for the hard parts
Anyone who wants guidance without being told what to do

You don't need perfect answers. You need a place to start, tools to talk, and a plan you both can stand behind.

Your Instructor

I'm Danielle. My husband and I have been non-monogamous for 16+ years and married for over a decade. I'm not a therapist. I'm a well-researched peer who has listened to hundreds of stories and learned the slow way what actually helps.