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Hi! I'm Danielle.

I've been in an open relationship for 16+ years — and now I share what I've learned and help people find better matches within the ENM community.

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Matchmaking

Fewer, better
ENM matches.

Private, human-led matchmaking for people in open relationships — no apps, no noise.

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Stories Worth
Reading.

Lessons, mistakes, and what actually works — shared by people navigating non-monogamy.

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ENM Resources

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Resources, guides, courses, and tools to help you open up — thoughtfully and intentionally.

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Designed for how
you actually date.

Matchmaking by Openly Committed is here. No swiping. No algorithms. Just one thoughtful introduction at a time — verified, private, and built for people who actually practice non-monogamy.

Verified & Ethical Matched with people genuinely practicing ENM — with partner awareness and consent
Emotionally Ready People who can handle open relationships — communication, boundaries, and all
Real Compatibility Matched on lifestyle, availability, and relationship goals — not just attraction
Private by Design No swiping, no public profiles — your identity is shared only with consent
Human-Led Matching Thoughtful, one-at-a-time introductions — no noise, no overwhelm
Built by the Community Designed for all expressions of ENM — LGBTQIA+ inclusive and welcoming at every stage
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Matchmaking

How It Works

01

Apply

Share a bit about yourself, your relationship structure, and what you're looking for

02

Video Call with Me

We talk through your experience, preferences, and what actually matters to you

03

Thoughtful Introductions

You're matched one person at a time, based on real compatibility — not guesswork

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ENM Resources

What I use, what I've learned, what I recommend

A Quick Guide to Opening Up

Managing Jealousy (and Other Big Emotions)

Telling Friends & Family
Course

A Couple's Guide to Opening Up
Booking

Book a 1:1 Call

Recommended Reading
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Danielle

About

Built by Someone Who's Lived It

I've been in an open relationship for over 16 years. In that time, I've navigated jealousy, communication breakdowns, dating app fatigue, and the slow, rewarding work of building a relationship that actually works.

I share stories and recommendations from my own experience, and through building a community online, I've spoken to hundreds of people navigating ENM for themselves.

ENM dating can be incredibly rewarding, but it's also challenging for most people, including us. That's what led my husband and me to build a more intentional way for people to meet each other. Most of us don't have time for endless swiping. We want fewer, better matches.

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Beyond Boundaries

Personal stories and hard-won advice from 16 years of non-monogamy. Twice a month.

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Fewer, Better ENM Matches

Free during early access. No commitment to continue.

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