Beyond Boundaries
Personal stories and hard-won advice from 16 years of non-monogamy. Twice a month.
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What to know before you open your relationship — plus how to start the conversation without blowing things up
A practical framework for handling jealousy, insecurity, and comparison — plus a worksheet you can actually use
How to share your relationship structure, what to say (and what not to), and how to handle reactions
The books that shaped how I think about relationships — and where I'd start if I were you
What to say, what to avoid, and the mistakes that shut people down early
How to decide what to share, what to keep private, and how to build trust without creating overwhelm
How to process a breakup when multiple relationships are involved — and why it can hit harder than you expect
The real story of our first conversation — and what I didn't understand at the time
A step-by-step video course to help you have the conversation, set agreements, and avoid common early mistakes
Talk it through with me — your situation, your questions, your next steps
Personal stories and hard-won advice from 16 years of non-monogamy. Twice a month.
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